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Thoughts on fantasy, shame, power, desire, identity. and the parts of ourselves we rarely speak about.

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Minimalist black and gold graphic featuring the words “Explore What You Can’t Ignore” beside the silhouette of a contemplative man, representing hidden desires, taboo fantasies, and self-exploration.

Minimalist black and gold graphic featuring the words “Explore What You Can’t Ignore” beside the silhouette of a contemplative man, representing hidden desires, taboo fantasies, and self-exploration.

Why Am I Turned On by the Idea of My Partner With Someone Else? Understanding the Cuckold Fantasy

Why do so many men fantasize about their partner with someone else? Explore the psychology behind cuckold fantasies, shame, desire, surrender, and identity.

Lana

Jul 278 min read

Dark editorial image of a man contemplating his attraction and identity for an article about straight men having same-sex thoughts.

Dark editorial image of a man contemplating his attraction and identity for an article about straight men having same-sex thoughts.

Is It Normal for a Straight Man to Think About Other Men?

Many straight men have thoughts, fantasies, or curiosities about other men. That doesn’t automatically change your identity. Here’s what the research actually says.

Lana

Jun 245 min read

Is It Normal to Have Taboo Fantasies?

Is It Normal to Have Taboo Fantasies?

Is It Normal to Have Taboo Fantasies?

Is It Normal to Have Taboo Fantasies? What Research Says

Lana

Jun 235 min read

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